
Catholics recognize in the Sacrament of Marriage a
covenant, a gift of unconditional love connected to God’s Covenant with all
humanity to whom he gives complete love. This covenant is created when a man
and a woman freely choose to form, in God’s image, a marriage.
In committing themselves in Christian marriage the
couple accepts to grow in faith and to make this faith concrete in their daily
lives. The couples’ openness to the gift of children is a sign of their
willingness to allow their faith and love to become fruitful by enriching the
wider human family.
Couples seeking to celebrate Marriage at Saint
Luke’s prepare by getting to know each other better and seeking to understand
more deeply the commitment which they are about to undertake. Couples are
encouraged to contact one of the parish priests at least six months to a year before the proposed wedding date.
Couples preparing for Marriage participate in a
process of preparation which includes reflection on issues pertinent to marriage
with other qualified married couples. This might take place within regularly
scheduled Couple-to-Couple programs or an Engaged Encounter Retreat Weekend.
Weddings between two Catholics take place in the
parish church of either the bride or the groom or at another Catholic Church
with the Pastor’s permission. The liturgy, depending on the circumstances, may
or may not include the celebration of
Weddings
between a Catholic and a baptized non-Catholic may be celebrated in either the
Church of the Catholic party or in the church of the non-Catholic party. Clergy
of either or both churches may be invited to participate.
Weddings
between a Catholic and a non-Christian may be celebrated in a church or some
other place appropriate to the celebration of marriage.
In
all cases, couples are asked to carefully plan the liturgy so as to reflect the
sacredness of the event. Materials and resources are provided to help in this.